Introducing physical contact is one of the vital steps in learning how to attract men early in the conversation. But the trick here is to always think playful, rather than seductive. Examples include a simple light touch on his forearm when you make a point, or just playfully batting his chest with your hand when he makes a joke. Or very lightly squeezing his arm when you thank him. The idea is always to make these instances of touch very brief and natural.
2. Feel free to disagree with him.
One of the best ways to be attract men is to be willing to voice your disagreement with his opinions. Obviously you don’t pretend to disagree for the sake of it, but if he says something that you’re not on board with, be sure to say so!
3. You Must Take Action.
The more choice you want, the more you need to give yourself permission to notice the world around you, and the more you must be willing to give yourself permission to take subtle but effective action.
Remember: A woman who keeps herself from really understanding men's energies, increases the odds of being seduced by her own loneliness into either relationships that are wrong for her, or into despair or even bitterness. Understanding men and what really attracts them, on the other hand, opens doorways that would remain otherwise hidden-- doorways into love, connection, and lasting emotional fulfillment.
4. Display intelligence and depth.
Don't say "like" and "um" in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. That depth of personality and mysterious air about you will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim.
5.Be fun, in ways that men think are fun.
