The Mystery of Scorpio Man

Understanding the Scorpio Man

When a Scorpio man gives you that penetrating stare for which Scorpios are famous, you will probably want to dive into that pool of passion or run in the other direction. A Scorpio man is not for the faint-hearted woman; his mysterious nature will either draw you into the chase or frighten you away. Don Juan was a Scorpio; many ruthless lovers are also Scorpios. The stereotypical Scorpio man is driven, passionate and unattached. He has a reputation for being a loner who tears through relationships, but the Scorpio man can be won over by the right woman.

Deep Waters

Scorpio is a water sign, meaning Scorpios feel things very deeply. A typical Scorpio man is distrustful and cautious about relationships because he cares so very deeply that he scares himself, causing him to put up smokescreens. He will usually engage in superficial but passionate and sometimes even violent relationships to protect himself from that frighteningly deep connection of which he is capable. You'll need to be able to withstand the passionate yet heartless assaults that may first characterize the relationship, showing yourself to be a trustworthy, strong, secure woman who can handle his passion and offer him a place to rest safely. You'll need to meet his depth, but hold your own.

Cynical Seekers

Scorpios believe that most things in life are too good to be true. They are realists, looking for proof before they trust or let anyone in. In order to win over a Scorpio, you'll have to prove to him that you are what he seeks: someone good-hearted, honest and without hurtful weaknesses that will trap him or betray him. He will need to see you are strong yet kind in your strength, so that a Scorpio man will be able to let you in and trust you will not use his own weaknesses against him. If you can be the solid kind of rock a Scorpio requires, you may find yourself in a relationship of astonishing depth and excitement.

First Moves

For a first date, take your Scorpio to a Swedish or German film festival. Nothing light or uncomplicated. On the contrary, Scorpios love to ponder the depths of the human mind.

If you are not into deep complex movies, try a more traditional approach to dating Mr. Scorpio and take him to an intimate dinner. A good point to remember is that Scorpios a quite traditional at heart. He likes to do things the old fashioned way. Do not play games, try to make him jealous or hard to get. It will not work with this sign. A Scorpio man appreciates a little flirtation. But don’t overdo. Just enough to attract his attention and then wait for him to come.

Keeping Him Seduced

Scorpios, like other water signs, need time alone to recharge batteries and ponder their feelings and thoughts. Therefore, give him some space to brood. This sign is very private and do not easily share what’s going on in their lives. They need time to figure out what they want to say. Respect his need for privacy and don’t force issues. When he is ready, he will confide in you. This is not a reflection on you, but rather an expression of his need to be alone to ponder what is troubling them. Scorpios care about the people they love which can turn into possessiveness. Stand your ground if he wants to keep track of where are or what you are doing. With this sign, always assert your rights and establish limits and boundaries while avoiding making him feel threatened. State your limits and do not compromise if not necessary. They can be pushovers and use their famous skills of persuasion to make you change your mind. So, know where you stand before engaging with this sign on issues of personal freedom and trust. On the other hand, a Scorpio in loves wants to be close and looks forward to the emotional bonds of a relationship.

Leave a little mystery.

If you have a Scorpio guy in your line of vision and you'd like to get to know him better, making the first move can be intriguing to him. However, Scorpios like a good mystery, so don't barrage him with talk about yourself. Let him ask the questions. Making steamy eye contact will attract him much more than an in-depth conversation.

Leave the lies at home.

Scorpios are highly intuitive and can usually detect when you have something up your sleeve. If you approach a Scorpio with lies or half-truths, they will generally know it. It's best to be up front and honest from the beginning.

Bring intensity to the table.

Scorpio guys aren't interested in nice girls they can bring home to Mom. They want passion and intensity and they want it now! Flirt hard and be a little aggressive. They can't resist a strong woman.

Be willing to experiment.

If you are going for a Scorpio guy, chances are you are looking for excitement and adventure. Don't get cold feet and back out at the last minute. If you want your Scorpio guy to stick around, you'll jump out of that plane or off that cliff right along side him.

What to Wear to Attract a Scorpio

I wish I could just tell you to wear black and to give you a simple answer to this complex question, but I’m trying to give you better advice than the other websites. There’s nothing wrong with black, but my gut is telling me that a Scorpio male might be intrigued by burgundy velvet with a subtle twist of Goth for winter. I’d try a gypsy look for summer. However, you should lean towards the romantic side rather than wearing anything with shock value. A Scorpio wouldn't be shocked, but it would be too overt, too easy to read.

Your Relationship With a Scorpio

I don’t know when you will know that you are in a committed relationship with a Scorpio, but when you are, you will know it. These guys can be devoted, but they are sometimes demanding. Reliability is good, but don't let yourself be overpowered by your Scorpio. And, always be vigilant about keeping a bit of autonomy.

And, as sexy as Scorpios are, sexuality is not just about sex. It’s about the fusion of spirit. And, this touches on an essential aspect of true Scorpio males. It's likely that anything concerning spiritual or mystical elements will be a part of your Scorpio's life quest.

If you find yourself attracted to a Scorpio man, you are in for an interesting adventure. And, if you aren’t serious, you*might not want to get involved.

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